Thank
you all for praying for Elizabeth during her surgery. The
surgery went fine - but - we had a scare afterwards. Wednesday
when it was time to see her, her nurse came to get me in the
waiting room. Elizabeth was having some kind of reaction to
some of the medicine again. When I got to her room, she looked
like she was having a stroke. The nurse (Rick Vaughn) told
me that the doctors had been in and they had determined that
Elizabeth was not having a stroke because she was able to
answer the questions that they were asking her and tell them
where she was and who she was. But - when I saw her in her
bed and all of her muscles were going to her left side it
scared me so bad. I just leaned down by her and prayed to
God. I told God that enough's enough - that Lizzie has had
enough of this and please let us start to see a big change
in all of this. It wasn't that I was mad at God - It's just
that I couldn't bear to see her go through one more thing.
I knew that she was so scared of the surgery to begin with
and now this. I just prayed for two hours. They gave her a
really big dose of Benedryl to counteract the medicine and
told us they would have to see how she was when the medicine
wore off. Dennis called to see if we were on our way home
and all I told him was to get to Shreveport now!! When he
got there, Elizabeth was still asleep. We just kept praying.
Finally, she woke up - looked at me - and said - "So momma,
can I go home now?" I just started crying - because once again
- God had taken care of my Elizabeth - I knew that he was
still in control. For a split second - I felt bad about being
so angry when I first got there - but I know that God understands
our fears and I know that he understands our love for our
children. I apologized for being so upset - I know he hears
my prayers!
Elizabeth
isn't able to use either hand right now - so we are her hands!
The right hand is all bandaged up and she has pins in each
finger that will be left for at least four weeks and
her left hand is in a cast to prevent surgery on it. Of course
this is very aggravating at times - but she's okay with it
for now. She is always fine during the day - but - at night
her emotions run wild. After a good cry and talk she settles
down though. I was talking to my sister, Karian the other
night about all of this. I told her that I wish someone would
please tell me what to say to her when she asks why - after
praying to God to heal her - why he hasn't. She says that
she's not a bad person - she hasn't done any of the things
that others do to deserve all of this. She prays out to our
God at night with all of these questions! I keep telling her
that although it's hard to see right now - that God has brought
her a long way! I always tell her that I am so proud of her!
She has showed a lot of strength through this. But, as a mother
who loves her children, I have questions too! I know that
our God is a loving God who can do all things! But, as much
as I hate to admit it, there are days where we are overwhelmed
with anger! I just put in the Martins tapes as well as others
and watch Gaither videotapes and let God speak through them.
After a good time of praying and crying out to God my fears
are once again calmed. I still here her at night praying to
God for some kind of answers - I know that in time - she will
have them! Convincing her of this, though, is getting tougher!
SO PLEASE PRAY THAT GOD WILL CALM HER FEARS AND PRAY FOR EMOTIONAL
HEALING - AND PERSERVERANCE - SO THAT SHE WILL BE ABLE TO
ENDURE ALL OF THIS SOMEHOW!!
Please
forgive me for rambling on all of the time - but - this seems
to somehow be my own therapy. By writing my feelings and concerns
down - it somehow helps! Thanks again to Dr. Sittig and his
staff - Elizabeth has a couple of favorite nurses - Rick and
Debbie. They are always so good to her when we are there and
take time to talk to her and to us! Thanks Rick and Debbie
you both will always hold a special place in our hearts!
Thanks also to Precious, Ernestine, and Queen - you've had
to endure her cries of pain when I wasn't there - you too
are special people! And to all of you who have sent cards
and e-mails - again, THANK YOU SO MUCH!! You will never know
how much it has meant to us. We feel like we know some of
you personally now! GOD IS AND HAS BEEN SO GOOD TO US THROUGH
ALL OF THIS - HE SPEAKS TO US THROUGH ALL OF YOU!! Once again
all of you always say the right things - we love you all with
a Christian bond of love! I pray that God will bless all of
you in a way that he only knows! We continue to pray for your
requests too! ISN'T IT GREAT TO BE BONDED TOGETHER THROUGH
PRAYER AND LOVE FOR OUR ALMIGHTY GOD!
Harrie
and Joyce - thanks again for your love for my family!
We could never make it if we didn't have your support and
all of our family's support! God uses the Martin's ministry
in so many ways - this is just one more example of his almighty
power!
We
love you all,
Marian Riles